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Who am I? Chapter III

Monday, September 07, 2009 14:55 | Deleted user

Ages 20 to 30.

Dost thou love life? Then do not squander Time, for that’s the stuff life is made of..

Benjamin Franklin.

 

Senior year begins with a ceremony called striping. A black velvet stripe was put across the top of our nurse’s cap, which indicated we were seniors.  We still had a great deal to learn and a few heartaches to deal with.  At this point we had lost nearly half of the number of girls that started. They had either quit, or were bounced for one reason or another. The school was extremely hard on our class, as the class ahead of us had 5 students fail the State Board Examination.  That was not about to happen again. Indeed one head nurse even commented in her years working there, she had never seen any class be so disciplined as our class. She said they are downright hard on this entire class.

My Pediatric affiliation was scheduled during my Sr. year. That just about did me in. We were sent to Children’s Hospital for that period of learning and it was during the time when polio swept the Middle West. (1952-1953) Many young children in Iron lungs, chest respirators or what ever else was needed to support respirations This was such a heartbreaking experience. I went home and informed my Mother and Father I wanted to quit.. I didn’t think I could bear watching another child die. Again, my father came to my rescue. He encouraged me to stick it out and said when finished he thinks it will have turned out to be my favorite part of training. Now it was my turn to think he had lost his brains somewhere along the line. Well, he convinced me and he was right. What a thrill to see these critically ill youngsters taken out of the iron lung or some other type breathing apparatus and progress to riding a tricycle. As it happened one of my little patients had the same last name. One day he asked a nurse for Miss Andersen. His mother was a volunteer and went to see what he needed. I informed her that it was Miss Andersen he was asking for. Mom found me and told me the story, that it seems my son has a crush on you. I think he was about 7 years old.

Moving right along I completed my training in early October 1953 followed by writing my state examination boards to qualify me for the title of RN.

I quickly visited a recruiting office to get started with the process of being accepted into the Navy Nurse Corps. Following a lengthy waiting period  of nearly a year, I received  orders  for orientation and permanent duty station following orientation as a direct Presidential appointment to the rank of Ensign NC USNR. One of my classmates and I headed for New York in September of 1954 for 6 weeks of orientation and learning how to become a Naval Officer.  One of our instructors was a Marine Corps drill instructor.  I was glad I was already skilled at knowing how to march as well as being a fairly good swimmer.  I do however occasionally ask dumb questions. I asked a Commander Nurse instructor if a war broke out, would I still be able to get out of the Navy at the end of 2 years. Hum-m-m. She looked at me and said “Miss Andersen, if there was a war, would you want to get out”.

Lesson learned. Think before you ask a stupid question.

Completing orientation I experienced my first flight from. NY to Norfolk, Va., my first duty station.  I had been told it was a terrible place to be stationed, however as the men out numbered the women 35 to 1, I could find absolutely nothing wrong with that situation.  While there, I was assigned to so much night duty one of the corpsmen asked me if I was on night duty again or still.  The detail officer informed me they had to assign nurses to night duty that could be trusted. My answer to that was “So, you have to be a bad nurse to get good duty hours”. She said, Miss Andersen, you wouldn’t do something like that would you? I told her I might consider it, but she was right. You should take what is dealt out to you and recognize the reason. In this case the reason was I could be trusted to make good judgment calls in difficult situations. I loved the Navy and within a year was asking to be transferred to Regular Navy. That didn’t fly, as I was told when they looked at me, they heard wedding bells. Well said I, glad you can hear them as I certainly haven’t heard any wedding bells. Promoted to Ltjg. 19 November 1955.

In June of 1956 I received PCS orders to Sasebo, Japan. I eagerly looked forward to a new adventure. One year in Sasebo, followed by a year in Yokosuka, Japan. While at Yokosuka I managed to fracture my 5th metatarsal dancing stocking footed doing the Mexican Hat Dance in a Japanese nightclub. My Chief Nurse informed me I should get dressed in the uniform of the day and go to sick call. Sure thing Cdr. Lindner, as I hopped around on one leg.

As I was considering my situation Cdr. Gordon Brown MC came to my rescue. Apparently my date Lt. Bill Friel, had informed the ships doctor regarding my situation. I did manage to get in uniform (ward whites) and Gordon carried me to the Orthopedic Department. I was blessed with a walking cast. But of course, duty requirements must march on. Mostly I worked in the New Born nursery. I had fallen in love with one of the premature babies. Her name was Mary Frances Bussy. The pediatrician waited until I had the day off to discharge her to home. Sniff, sniff.  Occasionally also in Labor and Delivery. Promoted to Lt. (03) on 1 March 1958.

In August of 1958 I headed for duty at Naval Hospital Oakland, CA but first went on leave to be the soloist for my brothers wedding.

While stationed at Naval Hospital Oakland, one task given to me was military escort duty back to Nebraska in the middle of January. On my return trip by rail, I met Rene Blum the Director of Ballet Russe de Monte Carlo. Certainly an exciting experience including free tickets (great seats) to Swan Lake and Gaite Parisienne.  A very exciting experience.

Duties included Medical wards, Chest ward and a short period of time on the NP wards.

It didn’t take long for me to figure out working in psychiatry was not my choice of nursing, not to mention Med-Surg Supervisors were shaking their heads and making the remark to me “What a waste of talent”.  Besides the NP supervisor thought my attitude was non-therapeutic. I displayed anger when an acutely psychotic patient grabbed me and tried to kiss me. I thought my attitude was totally appropriate. Oh well, I had previously asked to return to the Medical wards and was asked  “Miss Andersen, can’t you adjust?”

Perhaps I wasn’t able to adjust, as I didn’t think being attacked by a patient on the locked ward was exactly an appropriate thing to have to contend with under any circumstances.

In July 1960 I was transferred to USMC Base, Camp Pendleton.

I loved my duties at Naval Hospital, Camp Pendleton.  Charge nurse on a busy General Medical Ward with a terrific Medical Officer Lt. Carl Leigh, who thought so much of my capabilities, he requested I assist him to establish a Medical Intensive Care Unit.. I had an outstanding Sr. Corpsmen, which made my task less hectic. The ward capacity was 16 and we were generally full.

While I was stationed at Camp Pendleton, I met a Marine that would later become my husband.

As this takes me up to age 30, time out until Chapter 1V.

 

“The bamboo for prosperity,” a Japanese friend explained to me, “the pine for long life, the plum for courage---"

“Why the plum for courage?” I asked, picturing courage as a great oak.

“Yes, yes,” answered my Japanese friend. “The plum for courage, because the plum puts forth blossoms while the snow is still on the ground.”

                                                                             Anne Morrow Lindbergh

 

 

Comments

  • Thursday, September 10, 2009 13:50 | Jeff Snowden
    You have a fantastic story. I especially like the quotes that you have written
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    • Thursday, September 10, 2009 15:14 | Deleted user
      Thank you Jeff. You are my hero, bringing me to eight remarks from new individuals. I await your up coming story. I will return the favor.
      I have a book "Timeless Truths--Priceless Promises. It is inspirational. I also get Inspirational quotes daily on my computer that I pick out to hopefully fit the current blog I post.
      Thank you for becoming a part of this great team. I follow Al's foot steps in saying I am always here for those that need me 24/7.
      Carol
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  • Sunday, September 13, 2009 15:40 | Albert Renteria (Administrator)
    Dear Carol,

    I would like to add to your list of qoutes.

    "There is one thing stronger than all the armies in the world, and that is an idea whose time has come."

    — Victor Hugo
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    • Sunday, September 13, 2009 16:09 | Deleted user
      A person who moves a mountian begins by carrying away small stones. Chinese Proverb.
      Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says, I'll try again tommorow. Mary Ann Radmoeher-Hershey.
      And how can I best promote that courage in the new learners?
      Being a nurse, my goal in life has always been to rescue anyone that needs my support. I seem to be failing to accomplish my mission as I witness so little partisipation. It indeed makes me very sad. I even posted my personal email address and said clearly I am here to help you. Hum! I guess an old lady in the minds of the young has little or no value.
      So be it.
      Thank you for posting. I appreciate it.
      Your favorite Navy Nurse and trouble maker. Carol
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      • Monday, September 14, 2009 07:47 | Albert Renteria (Administrator)
        Dear Carol,

        Your newly posted qoutes are the guiding light. They are reading and learning and with your clear example of participation, they will follow, but don't expect it to happen, because you want it to, allow it to happen when it is their time to do so. Semper Fi,
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        • Tuesday, October 27, 2009 10:47 | Deleted user
          I'm trying to think of some smart remark to make but instead, I'll just say Thank you and take your advice since you know I tend to be Ms. Impatience.
          Anchor Aweigh to my Marine friend.
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  • Sunday, September 13, 2009 19:14 | Frances Lowe
    Carol, I have known you for some time and have always relied on your wisdom and knowledge. It is wonderful to hear more about your past the the trials and things you have gone through to make you the wonderful lady that you are. I will continue to watch and read to colect those pearls of wisdom from you not only in your writings but as we get together.
    Keep up the good work for I do look forward to your postings but I also lok forward to your being at our functions.
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    • Monday, September 14, 2009 07:25 | Deleted user
      Thank you for your message and kind words regarding my wisdom and knowledge. I will do all I can to help you with as many of your tasks as you think I can handle. Just send your to do list for me off and I'll tackle the jobs, or at least let you know if I'm not successful. As for being at the functions, it is my priviledge to get to know the new learners. Hopefully my personal attention can be an inspiration to each of them.
      That certainly is my wish for the growth and development of the organization.
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  • Monday, September 14, 2009 00:28 | Deleted user
    DEAR CAROL,

    I AM REALLY GETTING SUCKED INTO YOUR NARRATIVE, AS YOUR LIFE UNFOLDS AND GO MARCHING ON. IT'S LIKE GETTING TO KNOW YOU FROM A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE. BUT I CAN SEE YOU HAVE STILL MAINTAINED THAT SAME FIGHTING SPIRIT, DETERMINATION AND BELIEF IN HARD WORK AND SELF WORTH. I'M ENJOYING YOUR POSTS.
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    • Monday, September 14, 2009 07:31 | Deleted user
      Getting sucked in huh? I hope that's a good thing and likely it is, as we have been friends for many years. I still treasure our time together in beautiful Hawaii.
      Determination? I think that might be my middle name. And I haave always believed that hard work results in success, so guess I better get busy with Chapter IV so others don't think I'm slacking off on the job.
      Thank you for your continued interest and support.
      Aloha! Carol
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  • Monday, September 14, 2009 20:37 | Deleted user
    I adore the quotes, relish in your writing, and look forward to reading the next exciting event in your life. Please keep up the great "book of life". Carol, you're an inspiration. Perhaps soon, I'll put pen to paper on "who am I". :)
    Like I expressed at the last meeting...what a memory!
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    • Tuesday, September 15, 2009 09:44 | Deleted user
      Thank you Terri, I hope my quotes are inspirational. I get many of them from a book "Timeless Truths--Priceless Promises.
      As for putting pen to paper, may I suggest what I do. I create my story using Microsoft Word. It gives me time to think, does spelling correction and I save it to the desk top.
      I usually add additional information over a period of time of 3 or 4 days. During that time I can reflect on what I have written, then add, delete or make changes. Then I copy and paste it into Add a Post. I figured that out after Chapter I, and I had forgotten my famous cow story. I know you are one very busy lady so perhaps this tip will be of value to you.
      Hugs, Carol
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  • Tuesday, September 15, 2009 09:12 | Jacki Andersen
    Thank you, thank you! I do absolutely love hearing about your years of service. I always remember hearing about "My Aunt" but being young you never grasp the concept of everything you encountered!! Keep it coming, I look forward to the next chapter!
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    • Tuesday, September 15, 2009 10:04 | Deleted user
      Dear Jacki, Currently working on Chapter IV. Lot's to cover between ages 30 and 40 and a little hard to condense that many events. However my point in trying to condense follows the KISS philosophy. "Keep it simple stupid". I don't want to be so detailed the reader becomes bored.
      I so remember you and your twin sister Jennie. The two of you spelled double trouble but were adorable little ones, loved by us all.
      Will alert you when I have finally posted Chapter IV.
      Love and hugs, Aunt Carol
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  • Sunday, September 20, 2009 15:11 | Taffy Dalby
    Carol,
    There is one thing for sure and that is that you have not wasted a minute of your life serving and serving with excellence, demanding the best. As fellow nurses, I appreciate your hard work and deft abilities which you brought to Operation Interdependence, where I first met you. You were a tough cookie to break, but I fortunately became your friend and confidant.
    And now our veterans, including yourself, get to benefit from your excellence, tenacity and integrity, so it's a win win situation for all.
    I pray that your strength is renewed each day to continue serving and being fulfilled in all that you strive to do.
    Go Navy...
    Taffy Dalby RN
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    • Monday, October 26, 2009 16:45 | Deleted user
      Carol,
      what a super story! I've read it but I think I'm going to read it again, just in case I missed something. Your father coming to your rescue telling you to stick in there, reminds me of my dad who came to my rescue several times also. Without his guidance I'm not sure I would have had a career in the Marine Corps. It was he who told me to go on when I doubted my self. Live is so much easier when you have a support system.
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      • Tuesday, October 27, 2009 10:39 | Deleted user
        Major Willingham, Thank you for posting a comment. Yes indeed life is easier when we have a support system and I have always been thankful for those that have supported me during difficult times. It helps us hang in there.
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    • Tuesday, October 27, 2009 10:33 | Deleted user
      Dear Taffy, I'm so sorry I missed this comment until now. It keeps me on my toes to check back for comments. I value your friendship established during our work with Operation Interdependence. I was blessed with awesome volunteers, not only at the center here in Oceanside but those of you in out lying areas. I always looked forward to when you would deliver your many boxes for final processing to support our troops. A huge thank you for helping make it successful.
      And a huge thank you for posting a comment.
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  • Saturday, October 31, 2009 11:58 | Chip Dykes
    Your smartest move yet, you met a Marine!! LOL!
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    • Saturday, October 31, 2009 15:51 | Deleted user
      Hey Marine! I had three goals, regarding what I wanted in a husband. Either a Navy or Marine pilot or a just plain Marine would be fine. I didn't just meet them. I looked for them. My Marine was an asset to my career. He was one of many that gave me direction and helped me if he thought I was not seeing things correctly. So you are right. Meeting a Marine was a smart thing. Now, when are you, Marine going to get moving. I really don't like having to give Marines a kick in you know where. Have been checking your blogs at least 3 or 4 times a week. Not seeing any action.
      LOL to you and Semper Fi.
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  • Sunday, November 01, 2009 13:18 | Fredrick Hunter
    really enjoy your life in the Navy,as I was navy also, I was
    on the USS CASTER in Yokosuka in 1958 59, then permanent
    shore patrol for six months there, then transfered to the
    tanker Misspillion AO105. I went in the Navy 57 and out 62. Been Heavy equipment operater mostly ever since.
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    • Sunday, November 01, 2009 14:41 | Deleted user
      Fredrick (ie Pete) as I know you. Thanks for posting a comment. Interesting that you were in Yokosuka in 1958. I was stationed the from August 1957 to August 1958. Having been in the same place and then become acquainted years later. Heavy equipment operator? Wow! An honorable and very hard working type of work. I salute you. We all make a difference in the world with the work we choose to do. Driving heavy equipment in my mind takes a great deal of skill. I'm sure beautiful buildings in our country, started at the ground level with people in your profession. Thank you for your service to our Nation. Carol
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  • Monday, November 02, 2009 16:44 | Liz Turner
    I will have to print out your story and keep it by my bed. I like to read inspiration before I go to sleep. I look forward to reading the next story, the next quote, the next words of wisdom, the next silver lining. Thank you!
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    • Tuesday, November 03, 2009 05:29 | Deleted user
      Dear Liz,
      Thank you so very much for posting a comment. I'm delighted you find my stories interesting. I feel I have been a very fortunate individual. Much of my success I can attribute to having outstanding guidance from my patents and my many dedicated instructors during the learning process.
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  • Friday, January 08, 2010 19:32 | Anthony Swetala
    “So, you have to be a bad nurse to get good duty hours?” Carol Grice...wait I know the answer to this one...Yes! Explicitly Yes. That sums it up right there, don't it?

    Discipline is often associated with punishment. In fact, discipline is a much broader concept of which punishment is only one part.
    I have felt that way in many of my career endeavors. Why am I being punished for being most competent??? I almost gave up my dreams to one day own my own business, but I recently became inspired again. I really like the concept of this Learners Project. So here I am writing to you now, and I am refusing to quit.
    I want to introduce myself to you. My name is Anthony Swetala. "Thank you for your service Carol Grice" I was delighted to read you spent some time in Omaha, Nebraska. I was born and raised in Omaha. My grandmother, who also is a nurse, delivered me on October 28th 1973 at Children's Hospital. Small world. I look forward to a promising experience, and may God bless you Carol.
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    • Tuesday, January 12, 2010 09:32 | Deleted user
      Hi Anthony, Thank you for posting a comment. I have discovered it takes a great deal of patience before you discover another comment that needs a reply. For me that is the difficult part. I tend to be an action person that wants rapid results.
      As for punishment I also finally figured out it wasn't really punishment, but a case of if you are a person that is efficient and trustworthy you don't need much supervision, thus the results are evening, night and weekend duty where supervision is limited so the person that is able to function well without having someone always leaning over their shoulder ends up in certain type work situations. That doesn't set well with someone that is 22 years old and also would like to have a social life. As it turned out, my last few years in Nursing (after retirement) I was so skilled that my skills were in demand in various type day positions, such as supervision, patient education etc. I guess in the end it all works out. Just not when you thought you wanted it to work out.
      I was rather surprised when you said you were born at Children's Hospital in Omaha. It must have changed since I was there on my Pediatric affiliation. At that time it was sick kids and only sick kids. Indeed. It was when the polio epidemic swept the Middle West during the early 50's.
      I also thank you for your service. For me it was a great 20 years and following retirement I was often hired as a result of my military back ground. Or so I had been informed on more than one occassion. Their thoughts were I could make a decision and stand behind my decision.
      I salute you for refusing to quit. That is an outstanding committment. I wish you much success.
      Anchors Aweigh.
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  • Monday, March 29, 2010 04:32 | Laurel Ho
    Hi my dearest Carol. My favorite quote above and one which has been "totally me" lately is Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says, I'll try again tommorow. You are such an inpiration to others, I want to follow in your footsteps, but lately having a real har time keeping up! I'll get back on track soon. Love ya! L>
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